He’s just not that into you

Knowing whether he’s into you or not sets the table for frustration.

You can desperately want something to be true, so much so that you convince yourself that it is. So you’ve been seeing this guy for a while now but you just can’t seem to tell whether he’s feeling you back or not. That in itself is already a red flag because if he really wants to be with you, by now he would have said it loud and clear.

First of all, listen to your gut. It has probably been letting you know for a while now that you’re wasting your time with this person. If your gut isn’t enough, watch out for these signs that will let you know he’s just not feeling you as much.

1. You’re the one always making plans to meet up
2. He keeps cancelling dates and plans
3. He’s always late to said dates and plans
4. He flirts with other women in your presence
5. He doesn’t know much about you
6. You don’t know much about him
7. You haven’t met any of his friends
8. He’s literally told you you can date other people
9. It takes ages for him to reply to your texts
10. He never tries to impress you
11. Dates with him are boring
12. He’s hot and he’s cold
13. He’s all about sleeping with you
14. He’s never shown a shred of jealousy
15. You never have his full attention

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